Amipha

Assalamu-alaikum Warrahmatullahi Wabarakatuh I am a praticing muslimah who keep trying to learn sunnah such as avoiding bidah and riba. I am not perfect- May Allah help me. I am very independent woman and financially stable working as IT Senior Analyst in Jakarta. I used to live alone after my parents passed away more than 10 years ago -May Allah grant them jannah- and I have older brother who really taking good care of me. Despite of being stable and independent - I need someone who can share his mutual love and vision together to complete my deen. I am very introvert but love to have deep talking with people in my inner circle to learn each other life lesson and remind about sabr and good deeds. I work from home - very rare to go out or office and I used to spend my time at home with cooking- reading or watching podcast or streaming -not movie or anything like that. I love voluntering and social activies like visiting orphanage or just simply sharing food to people. Qadarullah I have been diagnosed with a longlife term diasease called hypotyroid- but alhamdulillah it does not really affect my life on daily basis. I regularly doing medcheck every year. May Allah give rewards and sabr for this. I am bit possesive and very detailed person in planning - this is my nature due to my life experience enforce me to fight and defense alone. I dnt have any ambition about wealth or career or anything but doing all best effort in what we are doing is part of good deeds or ibadah. So you will inshaAllah will find me always "all out" or give it all in most of part in my life. Because what Allah will see is our effort not the result- the ones that value us is our effort- as result is what Allah has decide upon us. Marriage is about the need- what you need in me and what I need in you. If we want marriage for beautiful wife or husband or wealth or prestige of family and children- we will inshaAllah get those if we want to make effort because Allah said " that man will not have except what he strove for" -An Najm 39-- but thats all in this duniya - in Akhirah we will not have any value if all of those effort not because of Allah or with intention to please Allah. I might be sick- you might be have issue in job - or our issue in financial or family or any test coming in future but as long as we know what make the value is effort because of Allah then inshaAllah we will survive. I need someone that mature enough to aware and minfull about himself - that know what he does. Someone that realize life is all test and share his courage to me to always give the best for both of us. I need someone that value clear communication and able to communicate disagreement or manage conflict- not escaping or pulling away when things get difficult. You will find me become.your best friend and supporter- inshaAllah.