Ummkitana

I need a man who makes me feel emotionally secure someone who listens to me- understands me- and reassures me instead of shutting down or dismissing my feelings. I want someone who is mature and emotionally available- someone I can turn to without fear of being ignored or invalidated. I want a man who is committed to his deen- someone who reminds me of Allah- prays with me- and strengthens my Imaan rather than weakening it. He should take his role as a husband seriously in both the Islamic and emotional sense- understanding that love- mercy- and responsibility go hand in hand. I need a man who makes me feel safe. I want to feel protected- cherished- and prioritized. He should stand up for me- defend me- and make me feel like I’m his responsibility not in a controlling way- but in a way that makes me feel secure. I crave love and affection. I need a man who isn’t afraid to express his feelings someone who tells me he loves me- who reassures me- and who makes me feel wanted. I want someone who enjoys being around me- who appreciates my presence- and who makes me feel like I truly belong with him. Family is important to me- and I need a man who understands that. I have children- and I need a husband who not only accepts them but loves them like his own. Someone patient- understanding- and willing to put in the effort to build a strong family unit with me. I want financial stability- not because I depend on a man- but because I don’t want to struggle. I need someone responsible- who understands the importance of providing for his family without making me feel like a burden. I need someone who is gentle with me but firm in his principles. Kind- loving- and patient- but also someone who takes action when needed and doesn’t avoid responsibilities. Above all- I want loyalty. I want a man who chooses me every day- who doesn’t make me feel like an option- who loves me deeply- and who values what I bring into his life. Someone who never makes me question my place in his heart.