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12. Preserve and guard the tongue 13. Expect,accept,and overlook her shortcomings 14. Give sincere compliments 15. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family 16. Speak of the topic of her interest 17. Express to her relatives,how wonderful she is 18. Give each other gifts 19. Get rid of routine,surprise her 20. Have a good opinion of each other 21. Have good manners, overlook small things, don’t nitpick. 22. Expect and respect her jealousy. 23. Be humble. 24. Sacrifice your happiness for hers. 25. Help at home, with housework. 26. Help her love your relatives, but don’t try to force her. 27. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you. 28. Remember your wife in Du’a. 29. Leave the past for Allah, don’t dwell on, dig into, or bring it up. 30. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family. 31. Take Devil as your enemy, not your wife. 32. Put food in your wife’s mouth. 33. Show her your smile 34. Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to protect. And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Undoubtedly in these are signs for those who reflect. (30:21)