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I have a bachelor-s degree in private law and currently pursuing a second one in computer sciences. I work remotely as a service desk analyst and alhamdulilah I-m the main provider for my family. My parents are both older than 65- and I have a half brother -dad-s side- that is married and has a daughter. Alhamdoulilah I don-t deal with interest - I expect the same on this one- nor I listen to music or watch movies. Not too harsh on this one because- it comes with time and understanding- I don-t approve of it but it-s not a deal breaker- but if you indulge in it expect a bit of nagging and constant reminders that it-s not something you should seek. I-d love my wife inshaAllah to wear niqab but it-s not mandatory as long as she-s observing correct hijab but know that I-ll be the happiest man alive if my wife dresses like the mothers of believer. I-m calm by nature- affectionate and would consider myself a hopeless romantic- at the same time im very logical when I need to- sometimes to a fault. I-d describe my attachment style as secure most of the times but if there are issues I might get anxious- since I grew up in a household where I was always on edge and had to make sure everything-s fine- so I may unwillingly get triggered if there-s too much fog in the marriage and would want to fix everything as soon as possible. I plan to make Hijrah inshaAllah in the future- but it-s a decision that should be taken with a lot of preparation and carefulness. Alhamdoulilah I-m enrolled in few Islamic programs online where I study aqeedah and fiqh and constantly attend to the courses in Islamic centers near me. I hope to be a good husband and father inshaAllah and am constantly working on my empathy- understanding- communication and gracefulness