mjshaikh

Bismillah. I’m seeking a wife who embodies humility at her core—someone who remains grounded and sincere regardless of wealth- status- or success. You are someone who shows shukr -gratitude- to Allah and the people who supported you- who stays loyal in times of ease and hardship. You’re the kind of woman who stands by her husband through trials—whether it-s the loss of wealth- health- or children—with calmness- loyalty- and thoughtful emotional support. You value simplicity- give in charity- adapt gracefully to life’s changing phases- and embrace your femininity through compassion- gentleness- and nurturing. Here are the qualities I seek in a future wife- insha’Allah: 1. A sincere seeker of knowledge- committed to tarbiyah -spiritual growth- to improve herself and draw closer to Allah. 2. A woman who reflects deeply on the Qur’an- allowing its guidance to shape her thoughts- character- and decisions. 3. A shared vision for raising righteous children- insha’Allah—young Da’ees and Da’iyyahs devoted to the path of Allah. As Allah says: "Let there arise out of you a group inviting to all that is good- enjoining what is right- and forbidding what is wrong. They will be the successful." —[Surah Aal-e-Imran 104] Such children are raised not through wishes- but by intentional effort and du’a from both parents—lifelong learners who remain connected to the Qur’an and Sunnah. 4. Wisdom alongside knowledge -hikmah- is essential. As Umar ibn al-Khattab -RA- said- “Don’t judge a man by his prayer or fasting- but by his truthfulness and wisdom.” We must avoid blind following -taqleed- of culture- family- or scholars- and always return to Qur’an and authentic Sunnah when faced with contradiction. 5. I am a polygynous man—not because it-s merely halal- but because I believe in reviving this Sunnah with justice- responsibility- and transparency. I will never shy away from practicing polygyny- no matter how secular liberalism vilifies it while normalizing haram acts like infidelity. Secular law permits cheating but bans polygyny—betraying both wife and girlfriend by denying marital dignity and protection. In contrast- Islamic law honors women by offering legal- emotional- and financial rights as co-wives in a just system. My late father had two wives- my mother being the second. Alhamdulillah- he provided for both homes and divided inheritance fairly. I’ve witnessed firsthand that polygyny- when done with sincerity and justice- is not outdated—it’s a living tradition. While I may not marry four wives unless Allah wills- I do intend to marry more than one if Allah facilitates it. I am upfront about this and want my future wife to be emotionally secure and accepting of this possibility. I’m looking for a generous-hearted woman—not one prone to jealousy or scarcity thinking—who can see a co-wife as a sister- not a rival. We must support- not compete with- each other—especially for the well-being of future children. Most importantly- I seek a woman who understands what a husband needs: respect and willingness to follow his lead- as Allah says: “Men are the protectors and maintainers of women… So righteous women are devoutly obedient- guarding in the husband-s absence what Allah would have them guard.” —[Surah Nisa 34] About me: I-m an INTJ personality type—focused- loyal- and principled. If possible- please take a free MBTI test -like on 16Personalities.com- and share your result so we can better understand our compatibility. Please also send a detailed bio with your background and values- and upload a few recent face photos. This helps ensure sincerity and mutual respect. JazakAllahu khairan for reading. May Allah grant us both what is best in this dunya and akhirah.