mjshaikh

Bismillah. I’m seeking a wife who is a very humble creature—someone who remains grounded and sincere regardless of wealth- status or success. You are not arrogant- rebellious or someone who is argumentative with a foul tongue. You are someone who constantly shows shukr to Allah and the people who supported you. A women who stays loyal in times of ease and hardship. You’re the kind of woman who stands by her husband through trials—whether it’s the loss of wealth- health- or children—with calmness- loyalty- and thoughtful emotional support. You value simplicity- give in charity- adapt gracefully to life’s changing phases- and embrace your femininity through compassion- gentleness- and nurturing. Here are the qualities I seek in a future wife- insha’Allah: 1. A sincere seeker of knowledge- committed to tarbiyah- to improve herself and draw closer to Allah. 2. A woman who reflects deeply on the Qur’an- allowing its guidance to shape her thoughts- character- and decisions. 3. A shared vision for raising righteous children- insha’Allah—young Da’ees and Da’iyyahs devoted to the path of Allah. As Allah says: "Let there arise out of you a group inviting to all that is good- enjoining what is right- and forbidding what is wrong. They will be the successful." —[Surah Aal-e-Imran 104] This verse from the Surah of the Family of Imran outlines the very legacy I pray for in my future family. I grew up watching Dr. Zakir Naik in the 90s who also comes from my city Mumbai. I learnt from him the significance of spreading the Message of Allah and the consequences of failing to do so which will bring the wrath of Allah as happened to Israelites who were chosen to spread the message of Torah which they neglected and became cursed as a result. After moving to Canada- I got involved in Dawah inviting non-Muslims to Islam and posting Dawah videos back in 2008 when Youtube was a very new platform. When I graduated with Computer Science degree- the very first software I developed was an Android smartphone App called Deen TV in 2012 which offered free Live TV streaming of top Islamic TV channels like Peace TV- Makkah Live- Huda TV- Iqraa TV etc. In 2022- I worked on Shaykh Yusuf Estes-s Guide US TV app for Roku alhamdulillah. Currently- I am dedicated to professionally editing and clipping viral worthy Dawah videos from established scholars and spreading them on popular video platforms consumed by millions. So I am very loyal and passionate about the cause of Dawah and it is extremely important for me to have a wife who is also dawah centric and understands the importance of spreading the message of Islam to non-Muslims because it is the most superior job title you can ever have as Allah says: "Allah praises those who convey the messages of Allah and fear Him and do not fear anyone but Allah. And sufficient is Allah as Accountant." [Surah Al-Ahzab 39] I want my wife and my children to do the work of the Prophets conveying the messages of Quran to non-Muslims and bring them to the fold of Islam by the permission of Allah. Because- one of the four criterias to enter Jannah according to Surah Al-Asr after belief and righteous deeds is to invite people to the truth and be patient. Above all- I seek a woman who respects her husband’s role as the head of the household and is willing to follow his lead- as Allah commands: “Men are the protectors and maintainers of women by right of what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient- guarding in the husband-s absence what Allah would have them guard.” — [Quran 4:34] — Total deal-breaker for me are — 1- Being Arrogant- denying truth and looking down on others based on lame material standards like wealth- education- status etc. 2- Selfish- Greedy and Stingy person. 3- Treachery and disloyalty-i.e. Fair-weather friends - relatives-. 4- Lacking sincerity and authenticity. May Allah grant us righteous spouse Ameen!