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I’m looking for a pious muslimah- who genuinely wants marriage- children and an Islamic family. Someone who is: Kind- gentle- feminine and affectionate Emotionally mature and peaceful Comfortable with a husband led marriage Independent in her own personality- interests and goals Interested in motherhood and family Genuinely excited about living in Madinah Comfortable with polygyny and becoming part of a wider family Hijab is expected of her- niqab is welcome if she personally chooses it. I want a peaceful home close enough to the Haram for prayers and family life to naturally revolve around faith. I’m looking for a woman who is excited about relocating to Madinah. I am currently married and my wife is comfortable with me taking another wife. I practice polygyny- and I’m looking for someone who genuinely accepts it. I see every marriage as a complete marriage of its own- with its own home- privacy- relationship- traditions and identity. I take fairness seriously- including time- financial provision- privacy and each wife’s rights. I would also like my wives to eventually feel part of a supportive wider family- while respecting that each relationship remains unique. I believe the husband should lead and provide- but leadership does not mean controlling his wife’s life. My wife keeps: her money- friendships- interests- education- career- hobbies and personality. I will provide for her and will never expect or take her money. I want major family decisions discussed together- and I have no problem changing my mind when she has the better argument. But once a matter falls within my final responsibility as husband- I expect us to move forward together. I want our home to be peaceful- affectionate- playful and safe like how it is now alhumdulillah Domestic help is available- so cooking and cleaning are not expectations placed on my wife.