AbuNael

Happily married- with the greatest baby boy -nearly 3- and baby girl in the world -nearly 5 months-. Stating that upfront as many women don-t want to be in a polygynous marriage. I-m looking for another wife to build a bigger family- care for another- and earn the mercy of Allah. Someone that-s likeminded to us and will be an asset to our family- and us in theirs iA. alhamdulillah I have more than enough rizg to sustain another family. I-m not after a secret second family nor do I want a second family disconnected from my first- rather one unit that is closely knit- even if that may not happen immediately- with each parent taking an active role in collectively raising children. My wife is aware of this and accepting- though not without her reservations of course. I-ve never had a haram relationship and have always been committed to my wife. I actually never seriously wanted a second wife until about 11 months ago- when I had a realization and a "spiritual reawakening"- if you will- and only since then have I started looking. I can explain in more detail later on. I-m fluent in English- Urdu- and Arabic- in order of fluency. I-m based in Bahrain but travel all over the GCC for work- and will start more travel to North Africa. Often I take my wife and kid with me when I travel for work so that-s a bonus if you enjoy traveling. My mom and brother and sister live in Jeddah- so I visit there often as well. I-ve grown up between Saudi Arabia and Canada- with plenty of time spent in the UK. I-m the youngest of six -four sisters-- with a large age gap between me and my siblings. I consider my relationship with all of them fairly good. Most of my friends are in their 40s or older - I generally prefer the friendship of more mature people. aJI I have many people of knowledge in my friends and family circle- a circle I-d love to count myself in in the future. In terms of deen I enjoy constantly improving my Arabic- and the different sciences of deen- and especially Quran- it-s tajweed and qiraat- hadith and figh. Growing up in Saudi I-ve had formal Islamic education throughout school- and I-ve continued to gain more since 4 Jl. And no- I-m not a madkhali:- In terms of aqeeda I-m athari. And if you-re interested in learning more about aqeeda you can watch this series: https:--youtu.be-FI_PG7dAOCk- si-mw53N2ncm069NGSb I-m not a blind follower of personalities-speakers. I follow the Quran and the Sunnah- wherever the evidence may present itself. I have plenty of family-friends that are students of knowledge from Madina University and others- and even one that is a true scholar -may Allah preserve them all-- so I have easy access to references alhamdulillah. I have a strong base desire for learning and constant self-improvement and understanding the world Allah has created for us - this includes various sciences -biochemistry- psychology- nutrition- physics- etc-- history- economics- anthropology- sociology- languages etc. My father I was a physicist and professor- and developed in me a love الحمد لله for science and truth- which I continue to pass onto my son I have too many hobbies to count and not enough time these days to pursue everything. To name a few: weight lifting and calisthenics- basketball- archery- painting- working on boat engines- snorkeling- fishing- camping- gardening-farming. and most of all spending time with my son and raising him to be a leader iA. I love taking my son on unorthodox activities most parents don-t- including difficult hikes and camping- bike rides -on my bike-- swimming in the sea- and much more. I spend a lot of time reciting Quran around him as well- and since he was a newborn his "lullabies" have always been the words of Allah. As a result my son is very different a JI from any child I-ve ever met- very outgoing and adventurous- and has memorized a lot of Quran - which surprises even me- given he-s only 2 s ala- 4I. I mention this not to show off -this is a blessing from Allah- and his mot