Bodrul Islam

If you match with me then Alhamdulillah if not then also Alhamdulillah "If you are grateful- I will surely increase you [in favor]-" -Qur-an 14: 7- in search of my ideal partner. I want someone who shares my deep-rooted religious commitment to Islam. who don-t wanna lose her eternal akhirah -Hereafter- for this temporary dunya -worldly life-."let not the worldly life delude you and be not deceived about Allah by the Deceiver." -Qur-an 35: 5- my main preference is piety- so I want someone as a wife who is religiously committed. One who is pious or constantly trying to be pious- and who has good character. Prophet -ﷺ- said: “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth- her lineage- her beauty and her religious commitment. Seek the one who is religiously-committed- may your hands be rubbed with dust -i.e.- may you prosper -Sahih Muslim 1466- in another hadith Prophet -ﷺ- said:A righteous wife to help you with your worldly and righteous affairs is the best treasure can have. [Saheeh al-Jaami - 4285]. These are some of the good behaviours that I would want from my wife.such as: Love- care- faithfulness- modesty- kindness- helpfulness- Patience- good sense of humor. LOVE: Prophet Muhammad -ﷺ- said: Marry one who is loving [Sahih al-Irwa -6-195] KINDNESS: Prophet -ﷺ- said:“Allah is kind- and he loves kindness in all matters-” -Sahih Bukhari 6528- Prophet -ﷺ- said: “Indeed among the believers with the most complete faith is the one who is the best in conduct and the most kind to his family.” -Sunan Tirmidhi- Hadith: 2612- FAITHFULNESS: Prophe -ﷺ- says in a Sahih hadith:“One of the elements of happiness is a righteous wife- who when you see her you feel pleased-and when you are away- you feel that you can trust her with regard to herself and your property. And one of the elements of misery is a bad wife who when you see her- you feel upset- she keeps attacking you verbally- and when you are away- you do not feel that you can trust her with regard to herself and your property.” MODESTY: Messenger of Allah -ﷺ- said:“Haya -modesty- bashfulness etc- is a part of Faith. -Bukhari and Muslim- PATIENCE: Allah says- "And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits- but give good tidings to the patient-" "Who- when disaster strikes them- say- "Indeed we belong to Allah- and indeed to Him we will return." "Those are the ones upon whom are blessings from their Lord and mercy. And it is those who are the [rightly] guided." -Qur-an 2: 155-157- Prophet -ﷺ- said- “The real patience is at the first stroke of a calamity [Sahih Al Bukhari 1302] Allah says- Indeed- the patient will be given their reward without account -Qur-an 39: 10- HOUMOR: in one narration- Aishah-رضي الله عنها- placed her chin on the shoulder of the Prophet -ﷺ- in order to watch some kids playing. He asked her if she was done watching- and she kept saying no no 😅 so she could still rest on his shoulder. -Jami at-Tirmidhi- Aisha -رضي الله عنها- reported: When I saw the Prophet- -ﷺ- with a cheerful face- I said- “O Messenger of Allah- supplicate to Allah for me.” The Prophet said- “O Allah- forgive Aisha for her past and future sins- in secret and in public.Aisha -رضي الله عنها- laughed so much😄 that her head fell from his lap.The Prophet -ﷺ- said to her- “Does my supplication make you happy- Aisha -رضي الله عنها- said- “Why would your supplication not make me happy-The Prophet said- “By Allah- it is my supplication for my Ummah in every prayer.” -Ṣaḥiḥ Ibn Ḥibban 3446- HELPFULNESS: Allah -swt- says: “Help one another in acts of piety and righteousness. And do not assist each other in acts of sinfulness and transgression -Qur-an 5: 2- Prophet Muhammad -ﷺ- said: Let every one of you have a thankful heart- a remembering tongue that remembers Allah- AND A BELIEVING WIFE WHO WILL HELP HIM WITH REGARD TO THE HEREAFTER.” [Sahih al-Jami 5231]