SeekingSakinah

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ "وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُون۔" -Sūrat ar-Rūm: 21- "And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves- that you may find tranquility in them- and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed- in that are signs for a people who give thought." "رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا" "Our Lord- grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes- and make us an example for the righteous." -Sūrat al-Furqān: 74- --"A Companion for the Journey"-- By Allah’s grace- I am a Muslim man striving to live by the Qur’an and Sunnah according to the understanding of the Salaf al-Ṣāliḥīn. I believe Islam is not merely a set of rituals but a complete guide for every aspect of life—big or small. I am a "مُتَفَكِّر" -one who reflects-- seeking that divine sign of "Sakīnah"-tranquility- from my Lord. I believe marriage is not merely a social contract but an act of worship- as our beloved Prophet ﷺ said: --"إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ الْعَبْدُ فَقَدْ اسْتَكْمَلَ نِصْفَ الدِّينِ، فَلْيَتَّقِ اللَّهَ فِي النِّصْفِ الْبَاقِي"-- -Sunan al-Bayhaqī- "When a servant marries- he has completed half of his faith. So let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half." My day begins with the adhān of Fajr- and I strive to start every action --"Bismillāh"--. I try to make prayer the anchor of my life- as it is my direct connection with Allah. My morning begins with the remembrance: "أَصْبَحْنَا وَأَصْبَحَ الْمُلْكُ لِلَّهِ"-"We have reached the morning- and all dominion belongs to Allah"-. - I strive to establish regular prayer- embodying: "وَذَكَرَ اسْمَ رَبِّهِ فَصَلَّىٰ" -"And he remembered the name of his Lord and prayed"-. - Reciting the Qur’an and reflecting upon it - "تَدَبُّر" -. - I actively seek Islamic knowledge- following the principle: "طَلَبُ الْعِلْمِ فَرِيضَةٌ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ مُسْلِم" -"Seeking knowledge is obligatory upon every Muslim"-. --What’s in My Heart-- I wish to build --a home--—not just a house- but a place filled with mercy- where the recitation of the Qur’an resonates- and where mutual care and respect are nurtured. I am looking for a partner who shares this dream and wants to build it with me. "وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَ۔ -Sūrat al-Rūm: 21- "And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves- that you may find tranquility in them."- -What We Can Build Together- A Team: Where we support each other in goodness and taqwā - وَتَعَاوَنُوا عَلَى الْبِرِی وَالتَّقْوَىٰ -. I strive to become a "عَبْد صَالِح" -righteous servant-- centering my life around "إِيَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ وَإِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعِينُ" -"You alone we worship- and You alone we ask for help"-. A Safe Haven: Where we can openly share our thoughts- experiences- and dreams. Companions for the Hereafter: A relationship that extends beyond this world- into Jannah- inshā’Allāh. -What I Hope to Find in You- I pray to meet a woman who: - Prioritizes the love of Allah and His Messenger محمد ﷺ above all. - Values simplicity and contentment. - Possesses good character and kindness- reflecting the ḥadīth: "أَكْمَلُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِيمَانًا أَحْسَنُهُمْ خُلُقًا". -"The most complete believer in faith is the best of them in character."- -Sunan al-Tirmidhī- - Understands that marriage is the beginning of a beautiful journey where we grow and learn together. -Closing Duʿāʾ- --أَسْأَلُ اللَّهَ أَنْ يَجْمَعَنَا بِمَنْ يُحِبُّ، وَيُبَارِكْ لَنَا فِيمَا رَزَقَنَا-- "I ask Allah to unite us with those who say- "Our Lord- grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes."- وَعَلَيْكُمُ السَّلَامُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ