Usukun

I am looking for an empathetic person who is at least 26 years old until mid 40s. I don-t have a particular preference of age but someone from the same generation may lead to more understanding. The timing and present life stage being compatible is more important to me. I value a woman who has been successful in their independence and resilient but is very much modest and feminine. I need a wife who can stimulate me intellectually- who has the capacity to learn and grow from each other and has no issues with pride- that can function in a marriage that promotes showing humility to each other when it is necessary- and to protect and value the esteem of each other as husband and wife. Not to belittle each other or make the one and another feel small- especially in times of hardship. I need someone who respects and values mental health- their own and other people-s. I believe this is one of the keys to a successful relationship that makes people continue to support each other even in times of despair. A partner who remembers and reminds their loved ones that pain and hardship are something temporary in this life. Due to my fluency in Japanese language and connection to the Japanese community for the majority of my life- I strongly wish that the cultural and ethnic background of my wife is of Japanese heritage who has been primarily raised in Japan but has worked or lived abroad for many years and has an open-minded towards different cultures and exposed to living in a multiethnic- multicultural environment. I would prefer a Japanese Muslimah who came into Islam after sincerely studying and having a strong understanding of the implications of taking their shahadah Another reason for this is if having children and a family is possible- I believe taking the subjectively good parts of -my- British culture and -wife-s- Japanese culture and having a moderate-liberal Islamic household is a vision of a life I aspire to. I am open-minded- so although there will be a strong preference to an unmarried woman with no children from a prior relationship. I would still consider someone who is divorced-widowed- with our without children. In an exceptional case I would even respond to a potential woman of a different heritage than I have expressly stated based on her character possessing the qualities and personality traits I had mentioned earlier I will endeavour to reply to any genuine responses I receive because I believe in clear communication and closure regardless of the result- so that a person can not have any misunderstanding or doubts.