Baris62

Generally: Our marriage life should be based on the Quran and Sunnah. We should give our best- to strive to Jannah by reminding ourselves of the hereafter- giving nasiha to each other. Things like adab or akhlaq should be given. It it is also important to communicate problems and not to keep things bottled up. And it is also important to me that she shouldn-t go into marriage with the mindset that everyone only looks at their duties and only fulfills the bare minimum. Key points for what i am looking: - I have no problem with my wife doing a mini-job at the beginning of our marriage- providing that she is not exposed to a fitna. But she doesn-t need that because I can take care of all the issues financially alhamdullilah. But i wouldn-t want her to work- when we are having children. Generally i would like have to like 4-5 kids in the future in shaa allah. - My wife should be feminine- loving- supportive- understanding. She should be looking for her religious duties. Dressing modestly- of course not putting on perfume- make up etc. I follow the view that niqab isn-t obligatory- so showing face and the hands is ok for me- but the dressing should still be modestly. But if she wears niqab- the better it is. - Also i wouldn-t want her to be active on social media of any kind. She shouldn-t have friends who cause fitna. I prefer nationalities from africa in general and from the middle east. Also i would want her to be younger than me.