App User

I have made up my mind and also told my parents about it and after some time they agree. That is if i married an older woman then me- then i will take care of her as much as i can- but then i might have to marry a second wife for children. So then ill take care of both of them. ill consider it as how prophet Muhammad pbuh married ktija may Allah have mercy on her his first wife. So she should also be loving and caring and support me all the way mainly in things which will grant us junnah. But if I marry a younger girl then i might not merry second time. Either way i will take good care of her by the will of Allah. But they should be rightous so then ill enjoy taking care of them till death and then by the will of Allah we will go to heaven. So being rightous is a must and the more rightous they are the more love there will be between us. For example: Even if i tell them to not wear hijab they wont listen to me insted they listen to what Allah and Prophet pbuh have said. And i want the merriage to be simple so we get more rewards for it. And Allah is the source of strength. If good looking then its a plus but whats matter the most is what is inside. When i see her i feel calm because of her deen and support for me. I dont want her to work outside of her home. And its her choice to work or not. And her money is her money. If she want to spend somewhere its her choice. I can give them advice if they want but at the end of a day its her choice. But it must be halal spending. And if they choose to work from home then it must not come between our time. I don-t care about there birth place as long as they are rightous loving and caring. About there current location. If i can afford it then i don-t care as long as they are rightous. If they are from far away then we might have to decrease the amount to times we can visit her reletives but if i can afford it and have time then no problem or we can video call her reletives. There deen Must be all Authentic Obeying Allah always and loves me.