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FYI: Separated from previous marriage after the Nikah only. The Walimah was never held- and no move was made to establish a shared household. About myself and my beliefs: I am a straightforward- courteous- sociable and understanding individual- known for being quite mature and grounded- with a decent and enlightened family background. I value simplicity- sincerity and good character. I have a good sense of humour- am family oriented and non materialistic- and believe in maintaining a balanced and meaningful way of life. I am interested in exploring- learning new things- travelling and going on long drives. I enjoy spending quality time with friends- family and at work as well. Above all- I want my entire life to revolve around Islam- with Deen guiding my choices- priorities and way of living. Religious values: Very Practising. Upon the Aqeedah- Ahlus Sunnah wal Jama’ah. Alhamdulillah- I am practising- and I also come from a strong- practising religious family- including my extended family. I have adequate knowledge of Islam and am passionate about deepening my understanding of Islam and strengthening my Imaan- which is the most precious thing. Deen is the core of my heart and is extremely important to me. I place great significance on Islamic principles and adhere to the Shari-ah way of life. I am an individual with strong ethics who is not carried away by every temptation and trial- living with the purpose of serving Allah and seeking His pleasure- regardless of the ups and downs- with the right balance between Deen and Dunya. By the mercy of Allah- I-m blessed to pray 5x in the Masjid in congregation as a principle- despite being at work as well. I implement most of the Sunnahs in my day-to-day activities- from the small to the large- as much as possible. Alhamdulillah! Additionally- I am consistent in reciting the Qur’an- observing daily Adhkar- performing Sunnah prayers and fasts- Duha prayers- Nafl prayers and so forth. I am actively seeking Islamic knowledge and participating in Dawah activities to the best of my ability. -Tabligh Jama’at- My usual dress code is mainly Kurta-Thobe- with casual wear when necessary- and my overall appearance reflects an Islamic identity. Most of the women in my family are Niqabis- including my mother- aunts and cousins. Masha Allah! I do not indulge myself in any haram activities such as Riba -interest-- listening to music or watching movies-dramas. I have never smoked- drunk- consumed intoxicants- vaped or even done shisha in my entire life. Alhamdulillah! Halal and Haram are considered beforehand in everything- with due thought and consideration. Furthermore- as a Muslim man- I possess a sense of Gheerah -protective jealousy- over my womenfolk! I believe in and strictly adhere to the concept of traditional gender roles- which are also Islamic practices- where the husband is the protector- provider- leader and decision maker -dominant-. Meanwhile- the wife is the homemaker and supporter. These roles are based on mutual love and respect- kindness and cooperation. I look forward to raising my future family- with my offspring being religious and committed to Deen- with a pious mother behind them. I’d love to guide and lead my wife and children gently towards the righteous path as the Qawwam of the family. Insha Allah! All the above is said and intended purely to give you an understanding of myself- my values and my background- not to praise myself in any way. ___ PS: I am looking forward to getting married as soon as possible- without unnecessary delays- and having a very simple Nikah and an intimate Walimah in accordance with the Sunnah- with no extravagance. Kindly note that- Insha Allah- I sincerely intend to keep open the possibility of practising polygyny in the future- when circumstances allow. This is based on its wisdom- legitimate purposes- and considerations of necessity- in accordance with the Sunnah and the principles of the Shari’ah. Therefore- I seek a wife