I'm Lituhayu, 30 years old from Indonesia, searching for a husband, and my ID on Mawada is 12539169.

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I had a bad experience in a relationship. Trauma and inner child made it difficult for me to trust others. However- other people always consider me the right place to exchange ideas and share problems. Actually- that-s a problem for me- because their problems make me feel suffocated- I don-t have a place to talk and share my worries. The people in the environment where I currently live never really knew my identity- they didn-t know my life journey. They even think I-m only a quarter of a century into my life. I-m tired of meeting naive people like that.

I just want to find a provider. A man who can meet my physical and spiritual needs- according to my standard of living. I want a man who can be a comfortable home for me. A place where I can be myself without judgment and with full support. I also don-t want to be involved in a complicated marriage that doesn-t have legal status. Oh- and I don-t want to share my assets and income with my husband. Because in Islam- the husband is a provider and women have no obligation to do so. If you can win my heart and trust- I will be a good and obedient wife according to religious rules. Women simply need attention- patience- and their needs met. As simple as that.